"Those who dance are considered to be insane by those who can't hear the music."
- anonymous

Thursday, March 15, 2012

i'm back and better than ever ......

my last post was on saturday, april 3, 2010. now here i am again ....... wednesday, march 14, 2012 .......

last time i was still married and looking for a way out ...... well i'm out and divorced !!!!!!!!!!! the journey has not been an easy one ...... but well worth it ........

i found what i was looking for ....... i'd forgotten who i was ........... now i see it clearly ........ i am kind , i am loving , i am lovable .......


Saturday, April 3, 2010

feel good fridays

Feel Good Friday's is Hosted by The Girl Next Door Grow's Up.

5 Things That Have Made ME Happy This Week.

1. Laughing my head off with my 16 year old son.

2. Talking to my 21 year old son last night.

3. Enjoying a beautiful view yesterday that made me smile.

4. Coming up with my own plan for my own future.

5. Spending time on the internet tonight.

Friday, April 2, 2010

New Name

I have changed the name of my blog because I am changing too.
I believe I can find the happiness and peace I have wanted in my life for so long. But I am going to need a plan to figure out how to go about it sucessfully.

It's not going to be easy because there is so much for me to sort out, my first step will be to get professional help through a counselor. I've gone to counseling in the past but did not stay long enough to see the results that I needed. I left too soon for reasons such as; feeling I should be over the pain in my past by now, knowing others have it harder than me and feeling like a cry baby, feeling as if I was taking too long to make any real changes in my life.
Yesterday I saw a man walking his daughter to the school bus with the use of two canes, I could tell it was extremely difficult for him to walk. Having worked in Nursing Homes with Rehabilitation Departments, I thought this man was probablly getting some type of physical therapy.
That is when I started to think that I should view my emotional therapy as I would if I needed physical therapy. I would not consider myself a cry baby or weak for any physical disability, I would not get mad at myself if my body did not heal quickly. So this is what I need to change about my own perception about emotional therapy and take the time I need to heal and make the positive changes that I want to see in my life. I don't need to feel rushed about it, just enjoy any progress I make.

I feel better already!!!!

Saturday, March 27, 2010

Do you have any out of the ordinary Easter Traditions?

When my kids got a little too old to hunt for Easter eggs outside, but were still young enough to enjoy it. I started hiding their Easter treats inside the house. I was not very good with holiday traditions, but sooooo glad I thought of this one. I used to tell them to go outside while I hid the treats, and once they were called in they would run as fast as they could through the house searching. It always made me laugh to see them and actually enjoyed it more than the traditional outdoor hunt. We also usually found candy hidden in the house way after Easter.

What are some of your traditions?

Wednesday, March 10, 2010

Every second

I found this quote at My HEART meet yours. A very nice blog I recommend.

Tuesday, March 2, 2010

Overcoming Battered Lives Blog - Domestic Violence, Domestic Abuse and Emotional Abuse Stories

Overcoming Battered Lives Blog - Domestic Violence, Domestic Abuse and Emotional Abuse Stories

France's National Assembly (comparable to the U.S. House of Representatives) approved a measure last night that makes psychological violence a crime. The law applies to men and women.
The law, said Prime Minister Francois Fillon, "will allow people to take into account the most insidious situations, which don't leave a mark to the naked eye but can mutilate the victim's inner self."

Getting out of an emotionally abusive relationships or stopping this form of manipulation is never easy. Problems between partners is typical, but when your partner turns emotionally abusive, hogging power and control for the purpose of ego gratification, then it is a matter that you should not overlook or dismiss.

Full hypnosis download Escape emotional abuse

Think I might try this. Let you know if I do. Let me know if you do.